To the son of 19, sits on mum's neck
This is a learning situation for students of the University of Practical Psychology. Imagine that a woman came to you as a consultant. Alla, 40 years old. The husband died…

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Raising a boy, raising a girl
Let's ask a question: if the boys have so many different deviations, if there are a lot of twosomes and difficult to educate among them, then why are almost all…

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A teenager wants to leave home. Parent Tips
The situation is not simple. On the one hand, something needs to be done right away, to change things as quickly as possible. On the other - are there any…

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A teenager wants to leave home. Parent Tips

The situation is not simple. On the one hand, something needs to be done right away, to change things as quickly as possible. On the other – are there any opportunities for this? Do parents have leverage over their child, are they ready to use their power? It happens that parents have levers of influence, but due to various circumstances they do not dare to use them, they shrug right away, they say: “No, no, we can’t take radical measures. We can’t leave him without dinner, it’s too cruel. ” The result – the children are hanging out in the streets, and what will happen to them is unknown. It can be much more cruel things than sitting once without dinner. Those who regret their children do not really care about them. If you think that the situation can be dangerous for the child – you need to insist that he does not leave the house.

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CHANGE ROLE

Now quite often what is called a role change occurs when parents expect the child to fill their emotional vacuum, lack of sincere cordial communication. Although this can happen in any family, it is most often found in single-parent families.

Some single parents establish relationships with their teens similar to trusting relationships between friends or colleagues. This is because they have no one to share their adult problems with.

Due to loneliness, dissatisfaction, depression or other problems, single parents sometimes simply can not treat their teens as peers. They want to entrust their children with personal problems that they are not yet ready to comprehend. Such parents strive to become “best friends” of their children, instead of establishing normal relationships for them. Continue reading

FAMILY INFLUENCE

Today, raising a teenager is very difficult. After all, most of the time they are influenced by other people: school teachers, peers, neighbors, TV presenters of entertainment programs.

This is one of the most important causes of all our difficulties.

Many parents feel that their incompetence, lack of preparation for the performance of parental responsibilities negates any of their efforts. But, on the other hand, it is obvious that the family still has a huge impact on children. Continue reading

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