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“Men do not cry” as a pedagogical suggestion to children
Seldom cry boys whom parents taught in a difficult situation – to act. More often, those children who do not know what to do cry.
The boy fell, hit his knee hard and sits, rubs it. – “Poor thing, how painful it is for you, go I will regret you!” – Grandmother screamed, and the child burst into tears. When they regret, I want to cry and feel poor. Women love to take care of the little and the unhappy, love to regret, but the result of such a female education is a girl, not a boy.
Watch how the children behave when they hit something painfully during the game. Do they cry? – Yes, if Continue reading
To the twelve son: education of responsibility
After returning from the Air Force 2013, my 12-year-old son often repeated: “Positive, constructive, responsible” … True, when I asked what he put into the concepts of “constructive” and “responsibility”, I could not say anything intelligible. I had to deal with explanations. He nodded …
Six months have passed. He is already thirteen. To my surprise, he sometimes began to ask me a question: “Why did you tell me this, for what purpose?”
A few months ago, he once again made an attempt to agree on a possible option to purchase a tablet. Despite the fact that I categorically stated that I would not get him this gadget, he did not lose hope and Continue reading
Raising a boy
Boys and girls are different initially. Since childhood, girls prefer to play with dolls, outfits and relationships, boys are more interested in cars, construct something and fight. You can, of course, raise a girl from a boy, but – why? Probably a man should be raised from a boy. A real man. But what is needed for this? How to do this, given that today there are a lot of like men, weak-willed, irresponsible and indecisive, ready to throw all the problems onto women’s shoulders?
A man does not grow out of a boy by himself, and maternal love alone is not enough to form masculine traits in a boy. A boy grows up as a man when he 1) sees a model of male behavior next to him, 2) when he is raised in a manly manner, according to “male patterns”, and 3) when a man is raised from him, not a rag. Continue reading
