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About the princess, a magic flower and a clue from the Cosmos

Once upon a time there was a princess. Real, fabulous. And as beautiful as they are written about in books. That is, blonde, with a wasp waist and large blue eyes. In the kingdom where she lived, everyone was just talking about her beauty. Only the princess was forever unhappy. Either the throne was set hard, then the chocolate is too bitter. And she grumbled around the clock.
Once she heard from a boy running after her carriage, unusual loud words. And there was such anger in them and some strange power that the princess realized if these words were used in the kingdom, then everyone would be scared of her and would love her even more. So she began to do. What’s wrong with her, she immediately shouts: “You are a freak, beastless cattle,” and the servants immediately part, and the priest asks if she will say anything special. It hurts too angry because. The princess realized that there was great power in evil words and began to use them left and right to strengthen her power …

But once this happened. The blonde princess went, grumbling and scolding everyone, as always, into her favorite garden. Here she could be alone and admire the swans floating in the pond. Passing the familiar road, she suddenly noticed a new exotic flower. He was great. The princess leaned over him, inhaled his scent and said: “Where are you from, Wonder Flower?” And the flower answered her in a human voice that his seed flew from a distant galaxy to help the inhabitants of the Earth solve their troubles and, if necessary, give advice. Like, his mission is this. The princess and the flower made friends. And the king-father began to go to the garden, asking all the councils how to conduct state affairs reasonably and correctly. And this kingdom has become exemplary. Ambassadors came here from all over the world to receive a decree on how to live better and better. That’s just about the princess began to talk less. And about her beauty, too. Although she was still beautiful.

The princess began to take offense. He comes to the flower and begins: “I thought you would only love me, you will help me alone. And already I see that soon there will be no time for me – all these ambassadors and loafers from other countries. And so it began to be repeated every day. The princess was more and more unhappy, more and more scolded those who robbed her of love and her flower.

Once she woke up in a foul mood: “Ah, I woke up, but the coffee is not ready yet? Where is this maid loafer? And where is my new dress – my father yesterday told these villains to embroider it with beads? And that today clouds so dirty crept in, the whole castle is in ink? ” The princess grumbled and cursed. Everyone in the morning from her got curses and even cuffs. “What’s the matter with me today?” The princess thought. “I’ll go and ask for advice from this ugly flower.” Because of him, they began to love me less. Everyone only admires him. ”

The princess was walking in the park, and nothing pleased her. Neither emerald grass, nor goldfish, nor graceful swans. And her wonderful flower, when she came closer, turned out to be wilted and lifeless. “What’s wrong with you?” The princess asked. “I am your soul,” the flower answered. “You killed me today.” I can no longer help anyone. The only thing I’m still able to do is to preserve your beauty. But on one condition. Now look at yourself in the mirror … “. The princess glanced and was stupefied: a wicked terrible witch was looking at her from the mirror, all wrinkled and with her mouth twisted. “Who is it?” cried the princess.

“It’s you,” the flower answered. “You will become like that in a few years if you use rude words filled with evil power.” These words are sent to you from galaxies that want to destroy the earthly beauty and conquer your world. There is tremendous power in these words and sounds. They destroy everything, and above all, the beauty and man himself. Do you want to become like that? ” “No,” the princess whispered. “Then I will die. But remember, if you even accidentally utter a rude word, you will turn into the one that looks at you from the mirror. ” And with that, the flower died. The princess cried for a long time and poured tears on the dead stem of the plant. She cried and apologized to him.

The princess has changed a lot since that day. She woke up with joy, showered kisses on her dad, thanked everyone who helped her throughout the day. She was all shone with light and happiness. The whole world spoke again about her beauty and her wonderful and light character. And soon he was found to whom she joyfully said “yes” and married him. And they were very happy.

Only necessarily once a day the princess went to a corner of the garden with a crystal bucket. She watered an invisible flower and believed that one day a new sprout would appear here, because if you love and water, then the flowers will sprout again, because the amount of good in the world should increase. A flower said goodbye to her, and she sincerely believed in it.

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