One of the features of the behavior of boys and girls of primary school age is the formation of groups that are homogeneous by sex (homogenization), the relationship between which is often described as “sexual segregation”. Children are divided into two opposite camps – boys and girls – with their own rules and rituals of behavior; treason to one’s own camp is despised and condemned, and attitude towards another camp takes the form of confrontation.
These external manifestations of psychosexual differentiation and sexual socialization are the result of psychological patterns.
Regardless of the place of residence and cultural environment, certain differences are observed in the behavior of boys and girls in the first six years of life. Boys aged 6-8 years are active and require more attention, girls are more gentle and calm. Moreover, boys are more aggressive. Aggression is the type of behavior that always distinguishes men from women, regardless of age.
Always and everywhere, boys, with rare exceptions, are focused on high achievements and should rely more on Continue reading
Let’s ask a question: if the boys have so many different deviations, if there are a lot of twosomes and difficult to educate among them, then why are almost all the outstanding scientists, artists, writers, doctors, composers, designers – men? And why did so many great people do poorly in school? Probably, among the two-year-old boys there are many who will never be able to realize what nature has given them. Why?
Apparently, because we do not know how to teach boys. The learning strategy in both kindergarten and school is most often targeted at girls. Both girls and boys are taught more often than women: at home – mother and grandmother, in kindergarten – teacher (“a whiskered nanny” is, unfortunately, a pipe dream, Continue reading
In 1966, investment analyst Harry Brown wrote a letter to his nine-year-old daughter for Christmas, which is still quoted. He explained to the girl that nothing in this world – even love – should not be taken as given.
Now it’s Christmas, and I have the usual problem – which gift should you choose. I know what makes you happy – books, games, dresses. But I want to give you something that will remind you of me every Christmas. And, you know, I think I chose a gift. I will give you one simple truth that I had to learn for many years. If you understand it now, you will enrich your life in hundreds of different ways and this will Continue reading