Parenting a girl
How to raise a girl? The question is important and not simple. In the upbringing of the girl there are two lines: the general line and the special line. The…

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How to turn a teenager into a man
It was 1993. At that time I was renting a 2-room apartment in which we lived with my youngest son, Ilya, who was twelve years old. The eldest son studied…

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6 years: readiness for school
By the age of six, boys begin to grow actively. For girls, this process begins much later - at nine to eleven years old, so at the age of six…

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A teenager wants to leave home. Parent Tips

The situation is not simple. On the one hand, something needs to be done right away, to change things as quickly as possible. On the other – are there any opportunities for this? Do parents have leverage over their child, are they ready to use their power? It happens that parents have levers of influence, but due to various circumstances they do not dare to use them, they shrug right away, they say: “No, no, we can’t take radical measures. We can’t leave him without dinner, it’s too cruel. ” The result – the children are hanging out in the streets, and what will happen to them is unknown. It can be much more cruel things than sitting once without dinner. Those who regret their children do not really care about them. If you think that the situation can be dangerous for the child – you need to insist that he does not leave the house.

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3.5 years: communication skill

Starting from 3.5 years for a harmonious development, a child just needs contacts not only with adults, but also with peers. It is in interaction with other children that the baby acquires the most important communication skills.

How does a child and adult communicate? As a rule, an adult teaches a child certain skills, transfers knowledge about the world around him, and broadcasts cultural norms of behavior. The child listens more than he speaks.

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3 years: a crisis of three years

The body changes its size and proportion, the child no longer looks like a chubby baby. Intensively develop large and fine motor skills, motor activity reaches a maximum.

The rapid development of the brain leads to the expansion of the intellectual abilities of the child. There is a transition from visual-effective thinking to figurative, speech is enriched, memory and imagination develop.

For a rather short time, the personality of the child is absolutely changing. These changes affect his character, the main types of his activities and relations with other people – adults and peers. It is in three years that the foundations of the image of his “I” are formed and the attitude to the world around is determined. Continue reading

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Features of the emotional sphere of boys and girls
A survey of educators and teachers regarding the individual characteristics of children's behavioral characteristics makes it possible to consider that usually boys are more excitable, irritable, restless, impatient, restrained, intolerant,…

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Fear of water, or How to not be afraid to swim
It is easiest for children to learn to swim when they play catch-up next to each other. Catching up on the water, when you need to swim away from the…

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A teenager wants to leave home. Parent Tips
The situation is not simple. On the one hand, something needs to be done right away, to change things as quickly as possible. On the other - are there any…

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To the twelve son: education of responsibility
After returning from the Air Force 2013, my 12-year-old son often repeated: “Positive, constructive, responsible” ... True, when I asked what he put into the concepts of “constructive” and “responsibility”,…

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